There isn’t really a rule on how to love your children, but now and then, we need to be reminded about some of the simple things we can do to show how much we love our kids. We tend to get caught up with work and other things, and we forget to do the simplest things to let our little children know how much we appreciate them.
A parent can show love for his/her child in so many ways during the day. You don’t always need to use your words to show how much you love your kid. Sometimes the most obvious things are the fundamentals of your love. Feeding, cuddling, clothing, and giving a safe shelter to your kids are proof of how much you care for them.
Sometimes the parents focus mainly on these fundamental ways of showing love, that they forget about the other simple things they can do for their kids. This article will help you remember and learn many simple ways to connect and express love to your children. Also, this is the best way for your kids to understand how much you appreciate them.
Here are some simple ways to show love to your child on a daily basis:
- Give your child super long hugs, don’t let go so quickly!
- Every day read them a chapter or two from their favorite book.
- If you prepare a lunchbox for your child, leave a nice note in there.
- When you walk past your child, give him/her a kiss on the top of the head.
- Show that you have noticed when the child has put effort into something.
- Every time, if possible, get eye level with the child when you are talking to him/her.
- Saying “I love you” never gets old or boring.
- Start some family tradition and keep it. Something simple like movie night.
- Let your child sit in your lap and rock him.
- Hold hands with the child.
- Piggyback rides are always a fun way to spend time with your little ones.
- Start spending alone time with your kid. Sometimes even 10 minutes can mean the world to him/her.
- Have a little display for their writing and artwork in a place where everyone can see.
- Give privileges to show your child that you trust him/her.
- If you are religious, you can pray together.
- Look your child in the eyes as often as possible and smile.
- Make time to do some activities like painting, coloring, or simply playing with toys with your child.
- Even when you have so many other things to do, spare a few minutes to dedicate them to your child.
- You two can have fun cooking or baking in the kitchen.
- Now and then, you can ask your child what they would love to do and then do it together.
- Put your computer, phone, and table away and use that time for your child.
- Surprises, even the little ones, will make your child’s day.
- Before bedtime, lay with your child and listen to what they want to share with you.
- Once in a while, you can act silly with your children and play dress-up or have a dance party.
- Board games are another awesome way to spend time with the children and the whole family.
- Create inside jokes about some experiences you have had together.
- Brushing your child’s hair or gently run your hand through their hair.
- Once in a while, you can have a day when you say “yes” to everything they ask. Of course, the requests must be reasonable.
- Daydream with your kid and plan a fun family vacation.
- Make sure you are giving your child enough time to get ready so that you don’t use too many “hurry-ups.”
- Talk with your children and share something unique you like about every each of them.
- Be curious if there is something your kid struggles with, and find a solution together.
- Cook your child’s favorite meal.
- Avoid talking about your children’s flaws in front of them. It ruins self-esteem.
- Once in a while, you can leave the “I love you” note on their bedside. It will make them happy when they wake up.
- Make them promises about doing something or buying something in the future, and stand by your word.
- Tell your partner about the children’s good behavior while they are around.
- Always make sure you understand their point of view.
Conclusion
Most days, parents rush to finish their duties. Rushing to get the children to school, rushing to get to work on time, rushing to cook a nice dinner, rushing to get the children to bed on time. It feels like you don’t have enough time to finish everything, not to mention to have some spare.
But, even with the time you have in your hands, no matter how long or short it is, there must be some extra few minutes you spend with your children. Use some of the tips we shared above to show the appreciation you have for your kids. With almost zero effort, you can make your child’s day a lot better. Parenthood is overwhelming sometimes, but we all know it is worth it.
